Thank you for sharing this. I think its healthy to keep their memory alive which you are doing by writing this article. This right here is a way of remembering them as they were. Since you have written it down even when the memories fade you have it here in written format. Lastly, there is no right or wrong way to grieve so those who say anything contrary don't know better because they have not lost anyone yet. But death is inevitable and unfortunately one day they will also learn what it is like to lose someone close to them .. its just life.